I saw an article today about Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise. It was clear that he was the master over her life and in control. However, Adam Sandler invited her to appear in one of his pictures for a small part. Adam had several friends he could have cast, but he chose Katie. It is an interesting coincidence. Did he know her real circumstances? As the money was good, Tom agreed to allow her to be in the movie. Tom was not allowing Katie to do any work without his permission. She was on set for two weeks. Neither Katie or Adam will admit anything but there were numerous coincidences while she was on set. For example, all movie studios have attorneys available and on call for every movie. Coincidentally, there were divorce attorneys available while she was working. This gave her the opportunity to speak with them to set up leaving Tom and making sure she had sole custody of their daughter. In addition, the payee on her paycheck was for her only. There appeared to be a great deal of assistance for Katie to plan her escape from her master. The odds were completely against her. Of course, when the official news was released it was her father that rescued her and the reason was because she was a Catholic. The lord and master of a person is also a factor in a narcissist. I follow from time to time on Facebook ‘Light over Narcissism.’ Nanette is the hostess of the video. She has valid points. It is important to recognize that she clearly knows the control factor for the narcissist. They want to be the ruler and master of their families which I think is one of the reasons certain children rebel strongly against that type of environment. I have seen the narcissist not allow his children to answer any questions, even innocuous ones without the child first looking at him to see if he will give permission. They also answer for their children. Katie did well to escape as have many other individuals from this type of controlling behavior, don’t you agree? The Good Gus Series is available online at Kindle, Nook and Waterstones. Hard copies, personally autographed, are available through our website www.goodgusbooks.com along with past blogs for your reading enjoyment. Now available audio and videos for the Good Gus series on YouTube! Digitizing for all the books are available now on YouTube! “Misplaced Trust” is now available on Amazon in e-book form. It is also available digitally at www.misplacedtrustbook.com. If you are thinking of a Will or a Living Trust, “Misplaced Trust” will give you the information you need to make an informed decision.