There are a number of personal traits that make an insecure person recognizable. One of the first traits is that they are overly concerned about what others think of them. This covers almost everything on the human spectrum from appearance, clothing, hair, shoes, job, home, car, etc. They also tend to be insecure about their abilities both at work, at home and if they play sports their success rate in scoring any type of points. This could even include simple games such as pool, chess, ping pong, badminton, croquet and any other types of games. If you ask an insecure person about their thoughts on any matter they have no opinion. This could even include work projects. They can be so unsure of themselves that they will make changes to a project that may affect other workmates and the actual job itself. They also cannot make decisions even if those choices are inconsequential. Have you ever been at a restaurant with this type of person? They cannot make up their mind about food or drink. It’s really annoying. I think the worst trait I dislike about insecure people is that they tend to put others down and insult them. You have probably seen this on old TV shows and on Facebook. It practically borders on bullying. They tend to go out of their way telling everyone they are really busy when in reality they are not. This is also a personality trait of a narcissist. Because they are so unsure of themselves they question you and every move you make which in turn forms questions in your own mind if you are making the correct choices. If you have a friend like this I suggest you find a new one, don’t you agree? The Good Gus Series is available online at Kindle, Nook and Waterstones. Hard copies, personally autographed, are available through our website www.goodgusbooks.com along with past blogs for your reading enjoyment. Now available audio and videos for the Good Gus series on YouTube! Digitizing for all the books are available now on YouTube! “Misplaced Trust” is now available on Amazon in e-book form. It is also available digitally at www.misplacedtrustbook.com. If you are thinking of a Will or a Living Trust, “Misplaced Trust” will give you the information you need to make an informed decision.